So. I've been thinking. *dun duuun*
Lol. But no, seriously.
Here's the deal:
When a girl in the public eye (ex. Adele) and says; "hey! I'm curvy and I love it!", people praise her and say "wow, what an inspiration! Everybody should be like her!"
and bla blah etc.
But if someone says "you know, I think (for example) Kate Moss is really beautiful. I love her skinny figure. I'd love to be like her", most people would say: "that's wrong, you should love your body no matter what you look like or if you have a bit curves here and there"
This pisses me off to no end.
Why shouldn't someone be able to strive to be model skinny? If this makes them happy, why not? It's their dream, not yours and it's not your place to tell them how
they should look.
It shouldn't matter, whether you're thin, normal weight or curvy and which one
you wanna be.
If someone says "hey! I'm a size zero and I love it!" people go batshit and say stuff like "ooohh noooo, that's unhealthy, you shouldn't be proud of that". Well, it's their fucking body. If they're happy with being a size zero or a size 16, it shouldn't fucking matter, as long as they're content with who they are.
People have different opinions & preferences.
Some people like chocolate-flavored icecream. Some, vanilla. Some like strawberries.
Some like blondes. Some brunettes. Some redheads. Or darker hair.
It's the same with beauty ideal.
Some people like how (for example!) Adele looks, some like how Beyoncé looks (bootylicious, baby <3), and some people think that almost-anorexic people are the perfect ideal.
Then how come it's so fucking taboo with saying "I like really skinny girls"?
I'm not saying that curvy/fat girls are ugly, not at all, and I never said that anorexia is a good thing (because it's not and I think it's horrible), all I am trying to say is that we all have different ideals of 'the perfect body', and none of these ideas should be wrong or considered weird. We're all human. We're all a bit weird. End of story.
Yes, I am tipsy and it's 2:30 in the morning.
Good-fucking-night.
4 thoughts:
Anah, you're beautiful the way you are and if you want to be skinny, that is ok.
The reason why we tease you is not because we hate you, it's because we love you.
And the reason why curvy people are less prone to be told: "uhhh, be careful, or you might become obese" is simple:
We are slaves of our neolithic ancestry. Curvy women have more reserves for times when food is scarce and they are better childbearers for times of plenty. Speaking strictly biologically.
So really, please accept out apologies for being nothing but a horde of grunting stone-age men :)
Stupid, grunting cave men ;D Nah, joking.
Ah, what would life be without boys and your primal instinct to conquer women? Life would sure be dull as hell xD
Anah I love you and I want you to be happy with your body but stop being ridiculous. xD Preferring chocolate ice cream of vanilla doesn't damage your immune system, cause hair loss, anaemia or osteoporosis, nor would it cause you to be more at risk of depression and sleep disorder. However, being underweight would do that to you. So I'd be a shitty friend if I didn't at least call you a cunt once or twice for being ridiculous. Cunt. Cunt. Okay now that's out of the way let's get down to brass tax: Being skinny, curvy, "normal" or so fucking fat that the only way to propose anal sex would be to say that you want to pry apart that battleship of an ass and shiver me timbers down your poopdeck, it shouldn't matter as long as you're healthy. And in the end, your genes are what will screw you over. xD For instance take Jack LaLanne: The dude had genes that could materialize into a goddamn mammoth with shark's teeth if it wanted to. He beat out 21 year old Arnold Schwarzenegger when he was 54 and I'm willing to bet he could bench press his own weight at age 90. xD
In closing: Just go with what evolution dealt you. Some people are born to be fat, some skinny and some just plain old regular and boring.. You can't fight your genes and in the end it'll only change your physique very little and cause you pain. So there. Go be healthy and happy. xD
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